lib/plugin.php now has a parent onAutoload function that finds most common
files that are used in plugins (actions, dataobjects, forms, libs etc.) if
they are put in the standardised directories ('actions', 'classes', 'forms',
'lib' and perhaps some others in the future).
* Fake_XMPP back to Queued_XMPP, refactor how we use it and don't create objects and load classes until we need them.
* fix fatal error in IM settings while waiting for a Jabber confirmation.
* Caching fix for user_im_prefs
* fix for saving multiple transport settings
* some fixes for AIM & using normalized addresses for lookups